Hate is a primitive coping strategy to ward off deeply hidden and pervasive emotional pain. Hatred is a debilitating and decisive choice of emotions for both the hater or chosen subject. Hating says more about the hater than what or who one is directing hate. When you are struggling in life, low-self esteem, having conflict […]
Are you one of the many people, who hate skinny women, the muscle guys, the ‘pretty people’ or the ‘filthy rich’? You see them shopping, golfing, playing tennis and in restaurants. They seem to have the perfect life wearing designer clothes and a spring in their step. You manage to calm your anger by assuming they are egotistical jerks, and slow-witted beneath their superficial superior façade.
Your loathing compels you to avoid the gym, because, you cannot bear to be compared to their sleek figure or physique.