Family Bond – Ties That Bind

Your life is a holographic reflection of your experiences from your first breath to the present. Many people believe we are a holographic reflection of experiences beginning from the source until the present.

When you examine your feelings about something you might notice that the feeling you have is based on family patterns. If you trace your feelings back to its source, you might find that one of your parents reacted/responded with the feeling that you are exhibiting. For example, your mother or father might have had an intense fear of lack of money, stemming from their life experiences. If that fear was not resolved, chances are you carried it into your life. Meanwhile, you may have no actual experience of lacking money, so being fearful does not make sense, and now the fear of lacking money blocks you from doing certain things that you want to do.

Keep in mind that your parents managed their lives and yours to the best of their ability. There was no intent to pass negative beliefs about money. Yet, that is what transpired. However, you can change it when you discover you have carried fear of lacking money into your life.

You can not resolve anyone’s fear for them, but you can decide to let go of it on your behalf. Whether your parents are alive or not, it is best to complete a symbolic ‘letting go’ of any fears that belong to them.

An easy ‘letting go,’ exercise is simple. Visualize inviting your parents to sit across from you in a room and share your desire to move on from the fear. Tell them that you know that they did their best with no intent to instill fear or harm you in any way. Then, forgive them from your heart. You might be surprised at how easy this exercise is.

Doing deep inner work with your fears will serve you well for yourself and for your children; if you currently have children or when you have children. If you have already seen the effects of your fears within your children, remember any changes you make now will be passed down to them. Either way, the effects will be felt, because once you break your ties of fears from the past, your children’s ties to those fears are greatly weakened. It is important to remember that is it never too late to have a new beginning.

Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD, Metaphysician – Certified Hypnosis Practitioner, Author and Speaker. Dr. Dorothy facilitates clearing blocks, fears and limiting beliefs. You can live the life you desire. She brings awareness to concepts not typically obvious to one’s thoughts and feelings.