I Am A Narcissist, How Can I Stop Hurting My Girlfriend?

Thank you for asking. You have made the first step to stop hurting your girlfriend. Acknowledge that to yourself. “I made the decision to learn how to stop hurting my girlfriend.”

To stop being a narcissist, you need to discover the cause of your mental, emotional physical and/or sexual abuse pain. Being a narcissist is a coping mechanism from childhood neglect, mental, emotional, physical or sexual abuse. Narcissists can recover.

We are told that narcissism is the most difficult mental health issue to resolve. The reason for that belief is because the psychiatric profession treats symptoms and not the cause of the symptoms. Treating the symptoms helps people to feel better, but resolves nothing.

Childhood trauma is the result of anything that compels a child to feel helpless, hopeless, or disrupts their sense of safety and security, including sexual, physical, or verbal abuse; domestic violence; an unstable or unsafe environment; separation from a parent; neglect; bullying; serious illness; or intrusive medical procedures.


All symptoms and distress behavior are labeled by the psychiatric profession vis-a-vis the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) as a disease, disorder, or mental illness. These diagnoses were specifically designed to justify and warrant prescribing psychotropic drugs and maintaining a perpetual patient for the duration of his/her life.

Discovering and transforming and transmuting the cause of all Mental, Emotional and Physical symptoms and labels is the most efficient and effective protocol to regain your life.

Transformation Hypnosis is defined as the treatment of the whole person–Mental. Emotional, Physical, and Cellular instead of simply treating the symptoms of a specific illness or disease.

Transformation Hypnosis Protocols and Nutraceuticals in the U.S. are usually considered non-traditional and include non-drug protocols as plant-based vitamins, supplements, and non-processed organic nutritional items.

All mental, emotional and physical symptoms, behavior, and diagnosis are more accurately a profound and necessary choice to survive the mental, emotional, physical, and/or sexual abuse one experienced during the maturation years or beyond.

Mental, Emotional and Physical Transformation and Transmuting is possible without psychotropic drugs, artificial hypnotic inductions, rituals, life-long coping strategies, and psychic interventions. I have assisted many people to heal the cause of their distress and stress.

The cause of people’s symptoms, distress, mental/emotional, and physical dysfunction is the result of mental/emotional, physical, and/or sexual trauma experiences that weren’t addressed then and are now coming to the surface as mental/emotional and/or physical symptoms.

When someone begins a holistic transformation/transmuting process, no matter how dire their predicament seems to be, I KNOW if she/he is WILLING to do the mental/ emotional discovery work; releasing and transforming beliefs, thoughts and feelings, anything can be transformed, transmuted. The word ‘incurable’ or ‘impossible’ only means that the particular condition, symptom, or diagnosis cannot be ‘cured’ by ‘outer’ methods and that she/he needs to GO WITHIN to effect the transformation/transmuting.

The condition, symptom, or diagnosis came from mental/emotional distress and will go back to nothing. When beliefs, thoughts, feelings, and behavior are accessed and addressed at the unconscious, subconscious and cellular level, the ’cause’ of any and all symptoms and behavior become crystal clear–it is mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual trauma/distress manifesting in the behavior and symptoms you experience.

Now you know there is a way to heal narcissism. I trust this will give you encouragement to hang in there. I’d be glad to assist you as I have assisted many others with narcissism with 100% success.

I offer a 20-minute complimentary conversation to answer your questions and to explain how the process will work for your needs. Contact me here… https://dorothyned.appointy.com I look forward to speaking with you.