Many people do not realize they are constantly reinforcing and being victimized by their beliefs. The beliefs you hold tell you what you can and can not do and what is right, wrong or true each moment. You can get lost in your beliefs that you only see the stories about ‘What was’ and ‘What might be.’
When your ‘What was or What might be,’ are your consistent thoughts you miss the exquisite beauty that is in the here and now. You might also feel trapped in patterns that are causing you pain, loss and missed opportunities. Yet, it does not need to be that way.
The indoctrinated programs of mass consciousness about money, worthiness, intellect, ability make it more difficult for anyone to have a breakthrough because everything in society reinforces your program (beliefs). Yet, it is important to remember it is your program and beliefs about these issues that limit your success and happiness.
Harry Palmer said it best in his article, Designing Our Own Reality, “We experience what we believe. If we don’t believe that we experience what we believe, then we don’t, which still means the first statement is true.”
When you accept your indoctrination and conditioning as, ‘That is just the way I am,’ you have moved away from being the source of your beliefs, and your past takes over as the source of your beliefs. Taking responsibility for your beliefs allows you to be the source of your beliefs right now. Looking to blame someone or something for your beliefs is disempowering and you allow your past to dictate your present. Thus, reality is anything you believe it is moment to moment. What others believe is their reality. Albeit can be one and the same on various issues.
Your beliefs have a direct impact on the quality of your life. Your beliefs cause you to think, behave and act in specific ways that either support or thwart your personal power. Your beliefs are imbedded in your unconscious mind. There is an easy way to discover your beliefs and systematically change them one by one.
Every moment you are unhappy about a situation is an opportunity to transform your negative beliefs to positive beliefs. For example: When you are in bumper to bumper traffic, you have choices – negative ranting thoughts, accept ‘what is,’ or if possible find another route. Either choice you will arrive at your destination as quickly as traffic will allow. The more you focus on the snarled traffic, the more upset you become. Accepting ‘what is;’ or taking another route allows you to create a stress free solution. This formula is applicable to any situation or issue.
This formula might seem too good to be true. However, it is that simple. Accepting ‘what is,’ or finding a more acceptable solution is the key to changing your experiences. Beliefs are the ruling formula. What do you want to believe? Change your beliefs and you change your life.
Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD, Metaphysician – Certified Hypnosis Practitioner, Author and Speaker. Dr. Dorothy facilitates clearing blocks, fears and limiting beliefs. You can live the life you desire. She brings awareness to concepts not typically obvious to one’s thoughts and feelings. https://drdorothy.net