Attract the Love Of Your Life – Your Soul Mate
Many people ask me, “What do I need to do to attract my soul mate – the love of my life?” This question stems from the strong universal desire to be connected and effect intimacy. As we move deeper into the Age of Aquarius we are awakening to the inner realms of metaphysical understanding that activates our spiritual desires to attract our perfect Soul Mate. The Age of Aquarius is regarded as a spiritual turning point – for western society, but particularly for every individual.
Prophesiers such as Edgar Cayce identified a “gradual change” starting in 1998 between the Piscean Age and the Age of Aquarius. Other prophesiers believe that the Aquarian Age would start in 2000, 2160 years roughly being the Age of a Sign. The Piscean age started around 200 BCE.
As people let go of their fear-based, survival of the fittest mentality and awaken to their love based intuitive, spiritual empowerment, drawing in one’s intended love of their life soul mate will be more easily attained. These powers are founded on the realization that we each create our reality, based upon our beliefs, thoughts, feelings, and actions. By awakening to this Universal Truth, we accept the response-ability that we are…creators of our life. This realization, consciously or unconsciously, activates the Law of Resonance. It sends each person’s vibration to attract…Spiritual Soul Mates!
The good news is…you have more than one love of your life – Spiritual Soul Mate! The other news is you will need the courage to look within, to learn why you are currently living your life without a soul mate. And the love of your life – your Spiritual Soul Mate needs to do the same. If one or both of you have not done the Spiritual growth to attract or be attracted….the odds of meeting are slimmer.
The key to learning how to attract or be attracted to the love of your life–Spiritual Soul Mate is for you to come to terms with the fact that your beliefs and the other party’s beliefs create your respective reality. Whoa! That is a lot to take in.
This simple truth is easy to understand, but difficult to master. To understand why it is difficult to master, you need to examine some facts about how belief systems are formed.
1. You create your relationships, based on your conscious and unconscious beliefs. These beliefs are derived from indoctrinations and conditioning. And maybe to a degree mind altering subliminal messages such as God punishes sinners. Sinners go to hell intoned by many well-meaning people and clergy. Those are merely the two most prominent mind altering subliminal messages that nearly every child hears. If your relationship beliefs are false, painful or not relevant to your current holistic intentions the impact is the same and if you are unaware of their existence or power. Simply because you believe something, does not make it true. For example: 1000 A.D. the majority of people believed the world was flat, a planetary false belief. How many unconscious false beliefs do you have about relationships? Men are obsessed with sex. Men don’t like to cook—except as a chef at a restaurant. Men are aloof or leave—i.e. indifference and/or leave. Love doesn’t last after the honeymoon is over; then you tolerate each other. Women are moody and bitchy. Women don’t want sex as much as men. Men don’t express their feelings. Women are difficult. Ya’ can’t live with them (women/men) and ya’ can’t live without them.
2. The majority of your relationship beliefs were created before the age of five. Thus, most of what you believe about relationships you witnessed with your parents and/or caretakers. The truth is most dysfunctional relationship beliefs are unconsciously passed on from generation to generation. Studies reveal 80% of everything you believe, think, feel, say and do can be directly linked to what you were conditioned to believe before the age of five. What relationship model are you resonating unconsciously into the universe?
3. Research reveals 95% of beliefs are embedded in the unconscious. That means 95% of your relationship interactions are stimulated by unconscious beliefs. If you find that difficult to believe, ask yourself what prompts you to say Q-tip instead of cotton swab, or Kleenex instead of tissue. The answer is easy…. advertisers have, through spaced repetition conditioned you, in the same way you have been conditioned by others and unconsciously sub-vocalizing those beliefs. How many negative unconscious, relationship beliefs are you resonating into the universe? My hunch is you will be surprised at how many beliefs you have taken as fact; rather than as an opinion or a distortion of the truth.
4. No two objects can occupy the same space at the same time. Thus, you need to learn how to un-create old negative, relationship beliefs. You need to remove the old debris first. Clean out the old, before you can bring in the new.
You could say affirmations until you could recite them verbatim. But if your unconscious is filled with the old negative beliefs you won’t attract your soul mate – the love of my life. Why? Because the old negative beliefs are dominate. You will simply continue to attract someone, who matches your old, relationship model! It is often referred to as same woman/man different face. Yet, during the dating phase you will be convinced she/he is different. Why? Not complicated. You are drawing to you the energy that feels like loving energy, albeit in a different package. It is the same energy you experienced from birth, which you are accessing in your adult life. Albert Einstein said, “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”
Research reveals that humans create 50,000 thoughts a day, therefore, by age 40 you have created 730 million thoughts. If only 10% of your thoughts are negative relationship thoughts, you have negatively reinforced those thoughts 75 million times. The crux of the matter is you are unconsciously continuing to resonate the energy of your old negative beliefs. Whether you hear yourself thinking the negative thoughts or not, your decisions are being impacted by them. Therefore, you attract the same energy—same guy/gal different face. It is analogues to using a thimble to bail out a sinking boat. You need to learn how to un-create your old negative beliefs, before you will successfully attract your soul mate – the love of my life.
The Universal Laws are all inter-related and are founded on the understanding that everything in the universe is energy, including humans, and that energy moves in a circular fashion. At the microscopic level, we are a whirling mass of electrons and energy atoms spinning rapidly. In fact, everything in the world is comprised of energy and we are intimately connected with this mass of energy, this sea of whirling electrons. Our beliefs, thoughts, feelings, words and actions are all forms of energy, What we believe, think, feel, say and do in each moment comes back to us to create our realities. Energy moves in a circle, so what goes around comes around. The combined beliefs, thoughts, feelings, words and actions of everyone on planet earth creates our collective consciousness, it creates the world we see.
You attract what you resonate, which is not necessarily what you desire. If you are willing to take a deep and honest inventory of your life, and if you have the courage to face the truth, that which is in your life right now is what you are creating, then you can learn how to Un-Create your old, negative beliefs.
This moment is the first moment of the rest of your life. Are you willing to do what it takes to claim your health, happiness and success?
There is no shame in asking for assistance to create health, happiness and success. If you have read the books, taken workshops, had psychic readings, taken prescriptions and OTC drugs etc. and still struggle; you might have emotional blocks preventing you from moving into what your health, happiness and desires.
P.S. This is an investment in your health, happiness and success. Following the principles in this process will change your life forever and I want you to experience it yourself as soon as possible. Remember only you can take care of your happiness and emotional, physical and spiritual health.
P.P.S. I offer a 20 minute FREE no obligation phone conversation to answer your questions and discuss how health and success is possible. https://drdorothy.net
P.P.P.S. You are worth it. You deserve to create your happiness and desired success. ###
Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, Ph.D., specializes in mind/body/spirit healing and physical/sexual abuse recovery. She empowers people to view life’s challenges as opportunities for personal and professional growth, and spiritual awakening. www.drdorothy.net or 480-794-1561.