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Your beliefs, thoughts, feelings, words and actions are all forms of energy. What you choose to believe, think, feel, say and do in each moment comes back to you to create your reality. Energy moves in a circle, so what goes around comes around. The combined beliefs, thoughts, feelings, words and actions of everyone on the planet creates our collective consciousness. Your choices create the world you see.
In conversation exchange is defined as talk, chat, discuss, argue or have an altercation. Both of these points of view, in the meaning of exchange, an underlying issue comes into play, which involves the element of engagement in the consciousness of exchange. The question is—What is involved in this exchange of engagement?
Margaret Thatcher, Britain’s first female prime minister, who changed her country and the world, sometimes for better, sometimes for worse. She was known as the Iron Lady, but she also had ovaries of steel, a tin ear and, at times, a heart of stone. Love her or hate her, she taught us some important lessons about leadership – especially about how to lead by being unreasonable.
Healthy relationships are one of the major pillars for a happy, healthy personal and professional life. It is ironic then that the education of children and young adults is devoid of teaching effective communication skills. Of course, we are taught grammar and punctuation, however, that is content. The process is the most critical aspect of communication.
When you say or do something someone takes offense with; you are on the giving side of toxic words or deeds. You carry some of the toxic energy from those words or that action. When you are aware of your unkind words or deeds, you need to forgive your Self and apologize to the recipient. It goes without say, the recipient has a responsibility to him/herself to avoid taking offense.