Have you ever wondered… “Why are we together?” “What is the hidden attraction?” “What is the reason we are in a relationship?” “Why do we irritate each other?” “Why can’t we just get along?” So many questions to ask and yet the answers seem illusive. The most challenging two questions are: “Why doesn’t he/she act like this or that?” “Why can’t I get through to him/her?” “If only she/he would___” Oh Happy Day. These questions are the big questions that are underneath all the other questions.
The majority of people know the expression, ‘A Guilt Trip.’ For those who indulge in or experience ‘Guilt trips,’ from others, the words are as familiar as their skin. ‘Guilt Trips’ can be all consuming and paralyzing.