Instead of believing there is only limited good, understand that there is an opulence of good. You can contribute to all that is good when you are in harmony with it and demonstrate it in what you think, feel and do. You know the cliché, ‘Be careful what you think, you might get it.’ While this cliché might seem trivial; it is the nomenclature for the Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy.
You are foolhardy to think you can argue your way around how nature works. The best way is to be in harmony with it. Discipline yourself to plant at the optimum time for seeds to grow, to till the soil, clear the weeds and create an environment for growth to naturally occur.
Remember like attracts like. The Law of Attraction demonstrates how you create the things, events, and people, who come into your life. Your thoughts (focus), feelings, words and actions produce energy which, attracts like energies. Negative attracts negative and positive attracts positive.
Forgiveness for oneself might sound selfish. However, being unwilling to forgive an egregious wrong, a slight, hurt or disappointment is analogues to drinking a little poison each moment you think about the ‘wrong’ that was committed and expect the other person to die.
Are you allowing yourself to stay in a situation or relationship(s) that are less than life-giving? Are you in a relationship that drains you? Is your workplace compatible with your integrity – a place where you can contribute at your best? Is someone in your life more of a burden than a joy? When you are in a situation or relationship(s) that are less than life-giving, you are forcing yourself to walk through life up hill.