Many people suffer with a need or compulsion to apologize for many things. On the one hand, apologizing is a social convention, that keeps interactions between people polite, and in that way it is helpful. On the other hand, if you apologize for everything, it is detrimental to your well-being and the other person(s).
While many people survive the loss of body parts, burning or poisoning, until the energetic issue that caused the need to burn, poison or remove the body part is resolved, the body will continue to bear the burden or that unhappily unresolved energetic issue. The person will recreate the physical dis-ease (unresolved issue) somewhere else in his/her body. An honest (authentic – true to their own heart) conscious change of thought, belief, action or behaviors is the only remedy that will create health in the system.
The juxtaposition of letting go of old patterns and behaviors and integrating new patterns and behaviors is sometimes a delicate process. The old patterns and behaviors need to vacate before one bring in new patterns and behaviors. This process can seem like a part of oneself is dying before the new has come in. While the new is what one wants and yearns for, it is sometimes a challenging and precarious process.
When you pray (ask) to have your desires, you are asking yourself to change your attitude; to change your course of action; to align with the Universe’s energy. You are asking yourself to open up to the truth of who you are, and then naturally the results will manifest as you desire.
More often than not, children are conditioned and rewarded to ‘fit in,’ through parental indoctrination, media, advertising and social establishments—religion, culture, education and society. While children need to learn manners, social etiquette, values and integrity, they also need guidance to experience life on their terms. Expressing one’s uniqueness against these multi-layered ‘fit in,’ messages are difficult to navigate. As you contemplate how drastically your life will change when you integrate these bold concepts into your day-to-day experience, you may feel a growing sense of pride. As you step out of the ‘fit in,’ paradigm, you might notice yourself being eager to resist the path of conformity. You will notice you are no longer subject to the pressure others put upon you to play by the rules.