Love heals, comforts and creates; all else destroys happiness, self and others. Love is volitional. Thus, a person makes a commitment to be loving; whether or not a loving feeling is present. The person, who truly loves does so because of a decision to love.
Having a thought and the act of thinking are two different phenomenon. When you are thinking a thought, you are giving life to that vibration. Thoughts will come and go, but your thinking is held with decisive intention. Thoughts that are of cynicism, resentment or betrayal are optional. You have a choice and you have a right to say yes or no to these thoughts. What you thought has power over you has none without your permission. You create constantly through your thoughts you hold onto. Choose consciously what you are thinking about – your thoughts that you hold with decisive intention.
Your life is a holographic reflection of your experiences from your first breath to the present. Many people believe we are a holographic reflection of experiences beginning from the source until the present.
Many people suffer with a need or compulsion to apologize for many things. On the one hand, apologizing is a social convention, that keeps interactions between people polite, and in that way it is helpful. On the other hand, if you apologize for everything, it is detrimental to your well-being and the other person(s).
While many people survive the loss of body parts, burning or poisoning, until the energetic issue that caused the need to burn, poison or remove the body part is resolved, the body will continue to bear the burden or that unhappily unresolved energetic issue. The person will recreate the physical dis-ease (unresolved issue) somewhere else in his/her body. An honest (authentic – true to their own heart) conscious change of thought, belief, action or behaviors is the only remedy that will create health in the system.