Happiness – Life Elixir

ByDorothy M. Neddermeyer Ph.D.

You have the capacity to be happy in an instant, like the flip of a switch or blink of your eye, a single thought can flip you into a moment of happiness. More often than not one can get caught up in the rigors of life and one tends to forget that happiness needs to be included. Seeing the irony of a situation can bring laughter, laughing at oneself or simply taking things less seriously. Happiness does not need to be scheduled, a steep climb or hard-won. Happiness does not need to be delayed until there is nothing pressing or of concern.

Have You Wondered…’Why Are We Together?’

ByDorothy M. Neddermeyer Ph.D.

Have you ever wondered… “Why are we together?” “What is the hidden attraction?” “What is the reason we are in a relationship?” “Why do we irritate each other?” “Why can’t we just get along?” So many questions to ask and yet the answers seem illusive. The most challenging two questions are: “Why doesn’t he/she act like this or that?” “Why can’t I get through to him/her?” “If only she/he would___” Oh Happy Day. These questions are the big questions that are underneath all the other questions.

Turn A New Leaf

ByDorothy M. Neddermeyer Ph.D.

‘Turn a new leaf.” The leaf is a page. Turning a leaf is to begin anew, to begin fresh, to reform and begin again. You can choose to ‘turn a new leaf,’ you can begin again, fresh, to start behaving in a better way. The gift of a fresh start is available to everyone at any time when you choose to receive it. You deserve to claim yours.

Thought Or Thinking: Manage The Difference

ByDorothy M. Neddermeyer Ph.D.

Having a thought and the act of thinking are two different phenomenon. When you are thinking a thought, you are giving life to that vibration. Thoughts will come and go, but your thinking is held with decisive intention. Thoughts that are of cynicism, resentment or betrayal are optional. You have a choice and you have a right to say yes or no to these thoughts. What you thought has power over you has none without your permission. You create constantly through your thoughts you hold onto. Choose consciously what you are thinking about – your thoughts that you hold with decisive intention.

Decision Making – Have Fun

ByDorothy M. Neddermeyer Ph.D.

Decision making is the key to everything in your life – from brushing your teeth to becoming a millionaire – have fun doing it, rather than perceiving it as a chore or scary proposition. Remember change is constant. Therefore, do not hesitate to change what needs to be changed as you move toward manifesting your goal(s). These steps are merely guidelines and need to be modified or changed to meet your unique style or circumstance. Also, remember to shift, change or modify your strategy as the winds of your industry, focus or circumstances shift or change.